In fact, when people feel lonely almost all the time in life, it seems better to die than to live in the world. Today's topic is about a real incident of loneliness ,,,,,
What's in today's topic,
1 / What is loneliness?
2 / Why loneliness is felt
3 / The real incident of suicide in the pain of loneliness
4 / How to overcome the stress of loneliness and what should we do?
1 / What is loneliness ,,,
Loneliness is something that people often fall prey to. Feeling we have 'Run out of gas' emotionally. Then there is no point in living on earth for him, then everything in the world seems selfish. It seems that the world is a garbage of interest. The crowd at his door devoured him. This enemy called loneliness makes a man difficult, teaching him that no one in the world is your own, everyone will use you for their needs and leave. Then he also started recognizing people, then he moved away from all people and started living like himself. Similarly, there is another loneliness that leads people to the brink of a great sin called suicide.
This loneliness is like a curse that leads people to destruction.
2 / Why the feeling of loneliness.
In fact, the reasons for loneliness vary from person to person
Maybe some people feel lonely in life because of cheating on their relatives, parents, brothers, sisters, husbands, wives, sons and daughters because of repeated violence and cheating. Some feel loneliness in the selfishness of the people of the world, some feel loneliness in the harsh words of their relatives under the curse of unemployment and the indecent behavior of their friends. Some people feel lonely in life because their relatives push them away. Similarly, a real case of suicide due to loneliness is ,,,,,,,.
3 / Suicide under the pressure of loneliness
A few months ago in Bangladesh, a brother named Abu Mohsin came to Facebook Live with a pistol in his head and talked about the sorrows and pains of his life in 15 minutes live. He shot himself in the head with a pistol. Thrilled, the question arose again as to why he committed suicide live, what happened in his life, what he lacked.
"No brother, he lacked nothing, there was no special reason behind this suicide. The reason behind his suicide was loneliness and separation of relatives.
There was no lack of money in his life, no lack of car-house, he was a rich man, he had no lack of money, no lack of luxury. His lack was the separation of his family.
He had a daughter and a son but the son was educated in higher education and is now in Australia. And the girl is eating habudubu in the world of dreams. When he came live, he said in his language, O Allah, why did you bother me so much, he said that his parents, sons and daughters all cheated with him. He shot himself in the head.
Dear reader, think for those for whom he has done so much, made a mountain of wealth, they do not have time to give today. How much he could have done if he had suffered so much, how much the separation and betrayal of relatives had hurt him so much that he came live and committed suicide
From his life he realized how terrible loneliness is.
4 / How to overcome the stress of loneliness and what should we do?
In fact, loneliness in our lives is due to our mistakes. Because we expect our love from people and what we want that people can't give you. Because people use everyone for their own needs. But if our love was for God, praying to God for all hope, thinking of him as our own, then maybe today I would not feel alone because he is always with you. Yours
You will find him near happiness and sorrow. Even if everyone in the world leaves you in times of danger, he will not leave you alone. The condition for him is that he should consider Allah as his own, that he should bow down in prostration and share happiness and sorrow with Him. Then you will see that you are not alone in the world, even if everyone in the world cheats on you, you will get Allah. People will leave you when you are under a little bit of pressure, but Allah Ta'ala will be by your side even in your greatest danger if you can do everything for him. Because He is your Creator. In the first battle of your life, in the midst of billions of semen, he brought you victory and brought you to earth. So let us be for Allah then be for Allah Ta'ala and inshaAllah Allah will be for us too. Then you will no longer feel lonely because you have a Creator who is your best friend. That shows you the way to danger.
Have you not read the verse of the Qur'an?,,,,
يَوْمَ يَفِرُّ الْمَرْءُ مِنْ اخِيهَ وَامِّهٖ وَ اََبِيْهُ ، وَصَاحِبَتِهٖ وَبَنِيهِ
On that day people will flee --- from their brothers, from their parents and from their companions, wives and children.,,,,,Surah Abasa
Comment:
) Verses 10 to 14 of Surah Ma'arij describe almost the same thing. Fleeing may mean that on that day people will see their loved ones drowning in the sea of danger and run away from them instead of running to help them so that they do not run away from them. Ask for help. Again, this may mean that they are misleading each other in the world without fear of Allah, and when they see that their evil has been revealed to them, they will run away from each other for fear that no one will be held responsible for the misguidance. And sin upon him. There are fears that siblings, children, husband and wife and parents and children will testify in the case against me this time.
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Surah Al-Baqara
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